29f I have been in a huge rut for the past 6 months after a relationship ended, I returned from a long trip to the otherside of the world and I just lost my spark completely.
I unexpectedly met someone but didn’t pursue it properly because I didn’t feel like the best version of myself. We met a few times and had a lovely time, but I didn’t see it going anywhere because I didn’t want to get into anything serious until I was feeling better.
Well things blossomed naturally and this man has made me so happy recently and I have started falling for him. Instead of wanting to hide because I have not been myself, I now want to fully upgrade my entire life and get back to myself but better. I want to move house and upgrade, I want to get back into the gym again and my love for fitness, I want to start therapy, I want to take the best care of myself and get back into skincare, I want to update my wardrobe, I want to fully get control of my finances. I genuinely just want to be better. I have had such a positive mindset shift and I don’t know why. This man has his life TOGETHER and I am genuinely in awe.
Could this be a good sign or is it irrelevant to him?
